c'est la vie.

MzJOWEE

" You want the truth? You can't handle the truth."

When it comes to matters of life and love, is the truth really the best answer? When your girlfriend asks (I’m assuming the boyfriends don’t), “does this make me look fat?” when CLEARLY she could wear something a little less revealing or tight, do you say NO because it’s the right thing to say or tell the truth and say “YES, can you change to something better?” Some of you may be laughing inside right now but it’s a common mistake or lie that people never think about. I have a friend ( just to piss him off) that I always ask about how I look and when I even say the line “does this…” he automatically says NO, without even looking at me… what the hell! But REALLY ladies, do we really want the truth? If our boyfriend were to tell us that YES it makes our butt look big and YES it makes us look fat, do we say “thank you, I really wanted the truth” or do we hit them and ignore them the rest of the night?

In dealing with friends that need advice in matters of their own life is it really better just to tell a white lie, than to tell the truth and hurt them? When you’re on the verge of throwing a garbage truck when someone you know is being stupid, do you tell them they’re being fucking annoying, or do you just stay quiet in hopes that they can change their ways?

I believe in life that people are naturally good-hearted, and their upbringing is what makes them change. People are naturally out there to do good either for a small purpose or a purpose for others. We’re always going to be thinking about how we make others feel because how we make them feel reflects how we live our lives. “What you don’t know won’t hurt you, knowledge increases sorrow.” – is a term that most people use, and sometimes it really is better not to say anything than to say something and have to lie about it. Personally, I feel that it really depends on the person if they can handle the truth or not, but in the end the truth will ALWAYS be the best option when it comes to matters of life and love. Even though the little white lies will boost another person’s confidence in the beginning, the end result will always be better once one knows reality.

Until next time…

xx.

NOTE: PICTURES FROM JESYLEE's BDAY/ FALLON's BDAY/ATEH JAN's BDAY posted in gallery =)